Relationships
I may not be the best person to give out relationship advice, but I can surely try!!!
I know one thing is for sure, tho. Make sure that the guy you are with is the one you are supposed to be with. If your friends, family, and co workers are telling you to stay away, take their advice and STAY AWAY.
That little piece of advice took me a while to understand. Took me a while to actually stay away from said guy...now I am with an AMAZING man that my friends, family, AND co workers all love.
I love him the best though.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 says, "(9) TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE; BECAUSE THEY HAVE A GOOD REWARD FOR THEIR LABOUR. (10) FOR IF THEY FALL, THE ONE WILL LIFT UP HIS FELLOW: BUT WOE TO HIM THAT IS ALONE WHEN HE FALLETH; FOR HE HATH NOT ANOTHER TO HELP HIM UP. (11) AGAIN, IF TWO LIE TOGETHER, THEN THEY HAVE HEAT: BUT HOW CAN ONE BE WARM ALONE? (12) AND IF ONE PREVAIL AGAINST HIM, TWO SHALL WITHSTAND HIM; AND A THREEFOLD CORD IS NOT QUICKLY BROKEN."
Two is ALWAYS better than one!!! Always encourage each other. Believe in each other. Pray for each other. Even the Bible says that a man having a wife is a good thing. Being MARRIED is a good thing.
I myself am about to get married. I am excited yet nervous all at the same time. I hope and wish that my marriage is everything and more. I already have a wonderful yet loving man. A man that WANTS to be with me regardless of what I look like. He accepts me for me and loves me anyways.
He doesn't hit or hurt me in any kind of way. In my mind, a REAL man is someone who loves his significant other. A man who doesn't hit, doesn't abuse in any kind of way. A man that loves forever...REGARDLESS.
My fiance is a nerd/dork/geek.....but he is still good to me. He has all of the aspects that I have looked for in a man. A man that is good with money, who will lay down his life for me, who is willing to accept me for me, who will teach me new things, who will watch whatever I want to watch, etc. Someone who wants me to be happy. I want him to be happy too. A real man doesn't make you feel guilty about anything. A real man will let you have a girls night out without complaining, but checks in to see how it's going.
Ladies, find a man that actually wants you!!! Step out of your box and find a godly man. A man that knows how to treat a woman.
I know one thing is for sure, tho. Make sure that the guy you are with is the one you are supposed to be with. If your friends, family, and co workers are telling you to stay away, take their advice and STAY AWAY.
That little piece of advice took me a while to understand. Took me a while to actually stay away from said guy...now I am with an AMAZING man that my friends, family, AND co workers all love.
I love him the best though.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 says, "(9) TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE; BECAUSE THEY HAVE A GOOD REWARD FOR THEIR LABOUR. (10) FOR IF THEY FALL, THE ONE WILL LIFT UP HIS FELLOW: BUT WOE TO HIM THAT IS ALONE WHEN HE FALLETH; FOR HE HATH NOT ANOTHER TO HELP HIM UP. (11) AGAIN, IF TWO LIE TOGETHER, THEN THEY HAVE HEAT: BUT HOW CAN ONE BE WARM ALONE? (12) AND IF ONE PREVAIL AGAINST HIM, TWO SHALL WITHSTAND HIM; AND A THREEFOLD CORD IS NOT QUICKLY BROKEN."
Two is ALWAYS better than one!!! Always encourage each other. Believe in each other. Pray for each other. Even the Bible says that a man having a wife is a good thing. Being MARRIED is a good thing.
I myself am about to get married. I am excited yet nervous all at the same time. I hope and wish that my marriage is everything and more. I already have a wonderful yet loving man. A man that WANTS to be with me regardless of what I look like. He accepts me for me and loves me anyways.
He doesn't hit or hurt me in any kind of way. In my mind, a REAL man is someone who loves his significant other. A man who doesn't hit, doesn't abuse in any kind of way. A man that loves forever...REGARDLESS.
My fiance is a nerd/dork/geek.....but he is still good to me. He has all of the aspects that I have looked for in a man. A man that is good with money, who will lay down his life for me, who is willing to accept me for me, who will teach me new things, who will watch whatever I want to watch, etc. Someone who wants me to be happy. I want him to be happy too. A real man doesn't make you feel guilty about anything. A real man will let you have a girls night out without complaining, but checks in to see how it's going.
Ladies, find a man that actually wants you!!! Step out of your box and find a godly man. A man that knows how to treat a woman.
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